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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 12:03

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why do so many FtM people act like MtF people don't exist and what the hell am I supposed to do as an MtF person?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can you explain the difference between being a conservative Republican and a liberal Democrat? Can you provide some examples of their ideologies?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Does not procrastinate.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

It is common sense that Joe Biden is ruining America and is unfit to be president, but why are the liberals still supporting him when Trump is obviously a much better fit for office?

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.